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Why am I not writing? (Stop Guilt-tripping)

WHY AM I NOT WRITING? (STOP GUILT-TRIPPING) BY SULEIMAN NDORO JNR (DR AUDI) “I should write something this week,” I said to myself as I was enjoying the beautiful scenery of Kwale. I was in a bus travelling to Ukunda from Kwale town to exchange my book, The Secrets , for money with one lady who had ordered it. Hours later, I had no idea of what I wanted to write. I was guilty that I had stayed for long without updating my blog. I said to myself again, “I ought to write. I have to write.” Little did I know that I was guilt-tripping. There was nothing positive that would come out from as long as I was guilt-tripping. You must be wondering what guilt-tripping is, yeah? Let me tell you how guilt occurs. For instance, have you ever stayed long without talking to someone and started developing a ‘feeling’ inside you? The statements that you make become: I should call her. I ought to call him. I must call him. I have to call her. What next? After that, you start ...